Friday, July 6, 2012

Ped Xing

I live my life as it is. I mean; I eat, I drink, I walk, I go to school, talk with my friends, do some social networks stuff, scratching my head when something confuse me, My eyes blinking, I sleep, wake up, sleep, wake up and laugh.. Talk and laugh, tease and laugh, listen and laugh. Laugh until I didn't how I'm going to define what I am laughing for? Is this mouth used to laugh? or better said that laugh means I'm happy? Yeah. All people assume when someone's show they're teeth with a sounds of joyful voice they're laughing, laughing for happiness and enjoyment. But, behind of it sorrow still stood up after us and walk to our front just to remind us "I'll never leave you, I didn't stop bothering you" that's the common thing person's have, problem. We always whisper to ourselves not to think about it, often we used our defense maneuvers just not to affect with that universal issue. Problem that never leave us nor separate form us. It always comes after our name. However, people counteract that spontaneous thing. Hang out with friends, explore different places, lots of money spends to party, got drunk, smoked, road trip, food trip, movie marathon and sometimes other people do rest or sleep. Well, actually that's better, I can say there's nothing wrong about that but the question is, what will happen after? Those problems go away? Is they gonna leave you now? or they just jump out unto your mind until you just like having amnesia and nothing to remember? So, no correct answer among the said choices, right?. Admit it, it still in us. Sad thing is, it never solved! That's life and truth hurts, the mere fact acceptance is the only thing we need to have. And that I think I should possess. Honestly, I'm not in the part of self-actualization of what we so called the fulfillment of a person. I feel enjoyment, I laugh and I smile. Is it happiness? or am I on state of being happy? Anyway, even I'm not yet fulfill with my life because of financial incapability, career, family relationship, or social life I am Happy and feel so at ease.

Here's my way how I does it:

#1 I hear and I forget-->
     I usually started conversation with a circle of friends or acquaintances and gossip always be part of it but I stand for my principle "I hear and I forget" in that way I will never tempt to share with others and not bothering myself about what I hear. Simply just it comes to my right ear and come out to the left one and vise versa. So I keep my friends as my friends and forgot what they said.

#2 I see and I believe-->
     Yeah. I hear that but still reality would be best. That's the power of Action speaks louder than words. When I see I see and I believe what I saw. But, I should not tell to anybody what is my outcome to what I see. I just keep it to my own.

#3 I feel and I understand-->
      I got confused when I hear something that I saw at the same thing. So, I used my Empathy technique to measure how they feel that way or what they think about that. And, if I still didn't get it. I do it. I feel it and at last. Now I understand.

#4 Accept and don't regret-->
     Yes, definitely yes! Accept the fact and don't feel regret about what happen or what would be the consequences. It only may happen once and never go back the tick tack of the clock before it happens but at least I did. I stand with all my proud and dignity that what I decided to do is what I must did! No regrets No pain. More acceptance More freedom. It's just how you handle the situation after it. Besides this present era is hard to drive our lives and yet the future era will be more harder than it have before. Survival of the fittest. If you want something that you never had you must do something that you've never done, and that is,  Changes.

and lastly,

#5 Appreciates
     For me, that's the most important thing to a human being. If you have the capability of doing so that acceptance but your not appreciating what have you've done because it humiliates you or it's not the thing that should be proud of, your more than to a person with no arms and legs but still can drive safely on they're  way home, a poor man who don't have family to lean on and alone with all he live with his life, a blind person who never see that is the color of sky, a girl who has been diagnosed with leukemia and an hour left with her life and chair that doesn't feel and knows how life is. In simple thing that you have to appreciates. do it. When a vendor smiles at you in the morning and greets you good morning, replied a smile or better a say a greetings  too. Your parents tap your back and whisper to your ear how they loves you, A inspirational post you saw anywhere, an old shoes you wear almost a year, a small house but a home, a rocks that keeps the bridge strong, a high-land place that never flood, a blue sky, a water in a glass, letter from someone, a piece of advice, a compliment, a reprimands, a shout, a silence, everything that God's made for us. Everything taht we should appreciate even the smallest value that we had.

That's life. That is how happy I am living my life for. My purpose, My happiness. Every little thing up to the biggest.

I hear, I see, I feel, I accept and I Appreciates.
I forget, I believe, I understand, I don't regret and I Appreciates.



Thursday, June 28, 2012

How to get NBI in Robinson, Novaliches


If you are nearby Caloocan North, Bulacan or even Quezon City here is
NBI branch right beside your home :)

NBI is located at Robinson, Novaliches Quezon City (Robinson front of SM Fairview)
3/F Lingkod Pinoy area..

Here are the Steps:

1st: If you want to easily process, Be there and wait at around 4am and I'm for sure you're in with the first 50 NBI Applicants. (You just fall in line outside the mall, Don't worry you have of companions there*those applicants)

2nd: Get a number and go back then around 10am or before on that. (It's inside of MALL so there are certain Mall hours that you need to abide, Robinson Mall opens 10am onwards)

3rd: If you get at the 3rd Floor. Ask the guard for your assistance and questions.

4rth: Get an application form and indicate the needed information. (If your purpose is for jobs, write Local Employment)

5th: Pay now at the payment section for your NBI Clearance.

6th: Your next step is you will check the information you've written on your NBI application at the Database.

7th: You'll have your picture and biometric fingerprints.

8th: If you don't have HIT, you will have your NBI Clearance at the same time.
       If you have HIT, you will be gone back then after 2 weeks.





:)

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Alternative Learning System

What's good about it?


With the help of New Era University and Department of Education, we provide now free educational program for the out of school youth and adult. In just 10 months ALS students will be graduated if they will pass the ALS A&E Test and with the help of God there's nothing possible. 

well let me introduce you about it..

            Alternative Learning System or simply called "ALS" offers to help those out of school youth and adult to have a free study with the help of Instructional Managers, Facilitators, and Department of Education.


           ALS aims to open more educational opportunities for Filipino citizens of different interests, capabilities of demographic characteristics, socioeconomic origins and status as well as addressing the needs of marginalized groups.
The program cuts the time needed to finish high school, hence, significantly cuts the expenses as well. Aside from giving hope to the less fortunate, it also provides opportunities to Out-of-School Youths (OSY) and adults elementary and secondary school drop-outs; industry-based workers; housewives; maids; factory workers; drivers; members of cultural minorities; indigenous people and the disabled/physically challenged.

One of a product of Alternative Learning System is A first year high school dropout, boxing champion, Manny Pacquiao took and passed the (AET) under the ALS program. He was presented a high school diploma, making eligible to pursue college. He was then named as the DepEd's Ambassador for the ALS and People’s Champ for Education. According to Education Secretary, Jesli Lapus, "Manny is an excellent model for all out-of-school children, youth and adults who are determined to learn and are able to gain functional literacy skills outside of formal schooling." And now Mr. Pacquiao is the ALS Ambassador wherein he attended last graduation event of ALS in New era University.

What will happen if those ALS STUDENTS will graduate?

               They will have more opportunity in having work. New Era University provide Livelihood Training for both ALS students and Instructional Manager wherein they will use it for Job Referral, Business and other purposes. ALS STUDENTS may continue their study in colleges with the certificate that proven they are eligible to enroll in college schools. And more motivation, hope and inspiration for them.

Well, to prove that ALS is eligible here's the Legal bases of the Alternative Learning System:
1.) Constitution of the Philippines 1987, Art. XIV, Sec. 2, par. 5: "Provide adult citizens, the disabled, and out-of-school youth with training in civics, vocational efficiency, and other skills."
2.) Executive Order No. 117, Sec. 5 - prescribing the powers and functions of the reorganized ministry of education, culture and sports
3.) DepEd Order No. 32, s. 1972
4.) Proclamation No. 480, dated October 16, 1989 (creating the EFA National Committee)
5.) DepEd Memo No. 101, s. 2001
6.) DepEd Memo No. 344, s. 2000 - PASUC (for government owned/controlled)
7.) DepEd Memo No. 533, s. 2000 - access to MFI
8.) DepEd Memo No. 110, s. 1999 - TESDA skills training programs
9.) DepEd Order No. 20, s. 2000 - a chance to acquire eligibility for government employment positions under CSC Resolution No. 499



Activities inside New Era University Alternative Learning System








Monday, March 26, 2012

buhay estudyante

isang linggong balisa, iritable at di makatulog pagkat may mga bagay akong dapat tapusin ngunit sa dami rin ng ginagawa lalong lumiliit ang oras ko para gawin yon. Isang subject lang.. 3 units nga lang eh saka 3 hours lang ang pasok namin don sa isang linggo pero.. pero.. yung mga gagawin daig pa namin ang schedule noong nakaraang taon na 11 hours at daig pa nito ang 5 units naming subject. hala teka! nasa bait pa kaya kami? biyernes ibinigay ang gagawin at sa susunod na biyernes na namin iyon ipapasa. ayun isang linggo pa pala! yun ang akala namin. Dahil sa final week kaylangan din namin magreview (kuno!) dumaan ang sabado linggo wala pa kami nagagawa dahil sa dami pa ng dapat tapusin pagkat may subject pa kaming iba bukod sa kanya. Lunes akala namin makakapagumpisa na eh! kaylangan pala naming magpractice para sa myusikal play namin sa miyerkules kaya pati martes binuno na nami npara sa praktis. Dumaan din si miyerkules gawa ng kaylangan i-play ang final requirements namin ay di na kami nakagawa pa. Umpisahan na sana namin sa huwebes kaso nagteks ihinto daw ang kompyuteysyon, sunod naman kami. Biyernes na, kampante kami syempre pinahinto eh akala namin di na gagawin (asa!) haha. yun pala may karagdagan pa at sa linggo na ipapasa (huwaaaw) kaylangan na ata tumawag ng klasmeyt ko ng lahat ng santo, tas yung isa kong kgrupo magdarna nalang, o kaya lahat kami talon nalang sa ten floor na building sabay sabay sa pressure na pumatong sa ulo namin. Isang linggong balisa, iritable at di makatulog tapos madadagdagan pa. Susmariya! mahy goodness op milk! Biyernes palang ng gabi gumawa na kami hanggang sabado, pahinga onti gawa ulit, pahinga onti gawa ulit, pahinga onti pahinga gawa gawa gawa.. wala ng pahinga. At doon ko nakilala si spearman galing sa baul ng statistics, kala ko magiging mabait sya yun pala pahihirapan kami sa dami ng gagawin sa kanya (naisip nga namin wag na kaya ituloy) pero hindi dahil estudyante kami kaylangan magsakripisyo! 28 hours na kaming di natutulog ng makilala ko naman si split halves ayun! di rin sya mabait. Actually mali pa nga pagkakagawa namin sa kanya kaya ulit ulit din kami. Heto na linggo na, na akala naming pasahan di naman pala salamat narin pero sa pasahan na itinakda tila kami nawindang dahil sa isang araw na aming gugugulin para sa pahinga na sana wala rin pala! hala ulit pala. tila parang guho na bundok ang tumalima sa aming mga ulirat! pero kaya at kakayanin yon. anumang dami o gaano man kahirap kakayanin at gagawin sa abot ng aming makakaya. Kahit na napapaisip kami kung bakit namin kaylangan magkompyut kompyut eh! sikolohiya kami di naman namin makokompyut yung tao pagineevaluate namin, di naman kami gagamit ng numero para malaman sakit ng isang tao, at di rin namin kaylangan ng napakaraming computations na yun para mabuhay kami. kung tutuusin kahit di namin gawin yun hihinga parin kami. 
               Pero sa kahulihan ng pagsusulat ko nito, naisip ko ang kahalagahan nito, yung epekto sakin ng mga numerong ito. Bawat titig ko sa kanila naiisip ko KAYA ko pala! magagawa ko naman pala eh bakit ako susuko? di porket di related sa course ko di ko na gagawin? nagpapatunay nga yun na walang limitasyon ang kaalaman ng tao. Mas naging aggressive ako sa paraang gagawin ko ang bagay na sa tingin ko nung una ay imposible pero makakbuti. Worth trying for. (ika nga!) nahirapan nga ako pero marami akong natutunan; sa numero, sa pagaaral, at sa buhay ko.

simple lang pero maraming nagbago at nakatulong sa aking pagkatao. Drama! eh. yun talaga eh kung ano pa ang korni sya ang nakakatawa. (anong connect?) 





Sunday, January 15, 2012

ang USOK ng lipunan sa likod ng kahirapan..




aking namataan ang isang batang ito na kay ligayang pahithit-buga sa kanyang hawak na istik.




Ano? sino? bakit? paano? ilan lang ito sa mga katanungang bumabalot sa aking isipan kung ano nga ba ang dahilan ng karamihang kabataang nalululong sa mga bisyo? maaari bang problema sa pamilya? sa pera? pagkain? gamot? walang laruan? walang mapaglibangan? nalulungkot? nalulumbay? o sadyang masaya lang sila sa kanilang napupusuang gawain?. Sino ba ang dahilan? kanila bang mga magulang na nagpabaya? kaibigan na umanyaya? o udyok ng sarili sa mga nakikita?. Bakit nila ito ginagawa? dahil sa karaniwan ng nakagawian? hanap ng katawa? at paano nga ba nila ito mapipigilan?

.. ang huling katanungan ay sadya lamang na kayhirap sagutin pagkat ang tangi lamang makakalunas ay ang mismong tao na gumagawa nito o mga taong malapit sa kanila.




Nakalulugmok..


                                                                      Nakasusuray..









                           Ako'y Nalungkot..







pagkat ito na ang kabataan ngayon sa bagong henerasyon.




Noong matandang panahon, ang mga kabataan ay kaysiya-siyang matutuhan ang mga bagong letra, mga numerong mala ginto sa mata at mga bagay na nais nilang makita. Mga ngiti nilang nangungusap na kuntento na sa mga bagay na nais nilang makuha. Ang panahon kung saan ang mga kabataan ay walang mga muwang. Ngunit ngayon, dumating ang bagong siglo kasabay ang bagong henerasyon ng mga kabataan!

Kahirapan! kahirapan ang pangunahing dinadaing ng mga tao kaya't natutukso sa mga gawing liko-liko. Nagnakaw pagkat walang makain, nagrurugby sa paraang mapalipas ang gutom, lumayas sa tahanan pagkat       ayaw makaragdag palamunin sa pamilya, tumigil sa pag-aaral at mas pinili ang barkada at kung minsan natututo na sila kung paano pumatay!! di bat' kalugmok-lugmok ang kanilang sinasapit?
Hindi nila kasalanang mabuhay sa mundo, hindi nila kasalang mamulat sa kapaligiran, kung ang mga dahilan rin naman ay ang mga taong kanilang pinagkakatiwalaan ay siya rin namang maguudyok sa kanila sa ganitong bagay.

Matuto ka paring magpasalamat kung saan ka nagmula. Hindi dahilan ang karumihan at kasalanan sa mundo upang malugmok sa mga masasamang bisyo.

Darating man ang problema, kasawian, kapighatian at anumang pighati huwag mong kakalimutang ito'y iyong paslamatan pagkat hindi ito sayo ipagkakaloob kung hindi ka pinagkakatiwalaan ng nasa itaas na iyo itong makakaya.












                                 Masaya maging bata! Dahil minsan ka lang maging bata :))

Saturday, January 14, 2012

COFFEELICIOUS...





Black as the devil, hot as hell, pure as an angel, sweet as love.” That’s the recipe for coffee, according to the utterly French statesman Talleyrand (1754-1838).
Across the Channel the British took a more, well, British approach to coffee cookery: Seventeenth-century diarist Samuel Pepys wrote of Londoners larding their coffee with butter, mustard, oatmeal, and ale.





I normally do not drink coffee that much except if I have to get up early and I need some beverage to perk up my day. There are varieties right now in the market that makes coffee more appealing. There are flavored coffees nowadays like the ones that are infused with hazelnut or french vanilla flavors. Others retain the conventional taste but they have been slightly modified. And there are those which are in “light calorie” variety that also appeals to figure-conscious people. One of the variety that has been so promising is the “brown sugar” variety which uses brown sugar rather than the conventional white sugar. One of the great things about this is the fact that brown sugar contains more nutrients because it is less refined. Thus, it adds nutritional benefits to coffeeas a well-known antioxidants.
Kopiko is a company from Southeast Asia. It made a big splash when it created candies made from coffee. It was a quick remedy for people who want to have a doze of coffee but have no time to make one. Right now, they have manufactured instant coffee. I was so drawn to their brown sugar variety.
Given that it used brown sugar, I was keen on the sweetness and taste. When you use brown sugar, it makes the sweetness a little odd but this was a good mix. I love the sweetness that they have created here. It was not too sweet nor too different from the conventional mix. There is that precise sweetness in the drink. I enjoyed it.
Another thing perfect about this coffee is the smell. There is no added smell that was mixed to this coffee but it smells like caramel. It was very inviting and addicting. Every sip gives you that rich and full aroma of delicious coffee. I think it matters having a great smell because it makes your experience with it great. In my case, I am addicted drinking this because of the smell. Not to mention the taste.



Some interesting coffee facts

  

 Coffee Trivia
  • When shopping for perfume, take some coffee with you in your bag and have a good sniff in between smelling each perfume to refresh your nose!
  • Sprinkle spent coffee grounds around the base of your garden plants and it will stop snails and slugs from munching them!
  • A mixture of coffee grounds and sugar, fed to a pot plant and watered regularly, will revive houseplants that have turned yellow in winter.
  • Some of the worlds most powerful business, including Lloyds of London and the New York Stock Exchange, started life as a coffee houses.
  • Vincent Van Gogh was a big frequenter of the café society and famously said “I have tried to show the café as a place where one can go mad.”
  • Revolutions have been planned in coffee houses, namely the French and the American Revolutions.
  • At the end of the 16th century records show there were at least 500 cafes in Istanbul alone. The first European cafes were opened by immigrants from Asia around 1650.
  • A coffee tree has a lifespan of about 50 to 70 years.
  • The coffee cherries turn from yellow to orange and then bright red, 6 - 8 months after flowering.
  • When it is in bloom, the coffee tree is covered with 30,000 white flowers which begin to develop into fruit after 24 - 36 hours.
  • A coffee tree can flower eight times in any one year - depending on rainfall.
  • There are 900 different flavours of arabica. Complex and very volatile, they deteriorate if exposed to air and light.
  • The aromas in coffee develop at the 10th minute of roasting.
  • Coffee increases in volume during roasting by 18.60%.
 Coffee is...
  • The second most widely used product in the world after oil.
  • It was worth 6 million tonnes per year in the mid 90's.
  • It is a living to more than 100 million people.
  • It is consumed at the rate of 1400 million cups per day.
  • The world's second most popular drink after water.

 Where did the word 'coffee' originate?

Kaffa? A province in Ethiopia where it was first discovered.
Kaaba? The holy building in Mecca.
Kavus Kai? A Persian king who was able to defy gravity and levitate by drinking coffee.
Kahwe? Meaning roasted in Turkish.
Cahouah? A hunger curing drink in Arabic.
Cohuet? Meaning strength or vigour in Arabic.








Friday, January 13, 2012

Till Life do us Together

Had it been started right...
key to a blessed marriage



There is only one key to successful marriage- start it right !

When people accord marriage all it's due respect and honor, God rewards them. The bible pictures a blessed marriage: "Blessings on all who reverence  and trust the Lord-on all who obey him! Their reward shall be prosperity and happiness. Your wife should be contented in your home. And look at all those children! There they sit around the dinner table as vigorous and healthy as young olive trees. That is God's reward to those who reverence and trust him" (Ps.128:1-4,LB).

Moreover, the Bible teaches that the blessed marriage is one with the head of a family who loves; is not harsh with her and who is responsible father and good provider. In return he finds a good wife  who is given by the Lord , loves him and his children  and respect him , and is submissive to him . Their children, on the other hand, are obedient and respectful , are a joy to them . Indeed a blessed marriage builds a family that stands firm, amidst all trials and is untouched by troubles.


However happy you are before the ceremony, there's something about getting married that can rock the boat. Most couples wobble on honeymoon. Many find that once back home, things aren't going as well as they did before the ceremony. A staggering one in two marriages are also set to fail.

So whether you're a blushing bride or forty years down the road, how can you make your marriage work? The answer is to look at what effective couples do and apply their secrets to your relationship.

Successful Married Couples get their deal straight 
Marriage is different from living together. It's not necessarily better, but it's different. Both of you will have different expectations of a 'spouse' than of a 'partner' - often basing those expectations on what you saw of your parents' married life. For example, you may have been happy for your man to live the student life before the wedding, but afterwards, you expect him to draw a regular salary.

Successful couples talk deeply before the wedding about their expectations of each other, and if there's serious disagreement - for example he wants kids, she doesn't - they think seriously about whether to marry. After the wedding, successful couples also talk regularly to check their expectations of married life. If those expectations clash, they keep communicating until they have understanding and agreement.

Successful Married Couples keep their individuality
However independent you were before, marriage has a habit of sucking you in to being a couple.

Particularly if the marriage involves children, your lives are increasingly tied up together day-to-day. The result is often feeling both dependent and depended on - as though you have someone constantly clinging to your ankles.

Successful couples know that, however much love there is, marriage can bring this trapped feeling. They encourage each other not to be always 'us', to take 'me' time, to have 'me' hobbies and even 'me' friends. This way, each partner brings individuality in to the marriage, keeping it fresh and alive.



“Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.” – Barnett R. Brickner
Wise couples realize that a nice home, car, or retirement account may appear nice to have, but they do not make a successful marriage. They understand that there are far more important principles at play. As a result, they have learned to invest their money, energy, and time into the 8 essentials of a healthy marriage:
1. Love/Commitment. At its core, love is a decision to be committed to another person. It is far more than a fleeting emotion as portrayed on television, the big screen, and romance novels. Feelings come and go, but a true decision to be committed lasts forever – and that is what defines true love. It is a decision to be committed through the ups and the downs, the good and the bad. When things are going well, commitment is easy. But true love is displayed by remaining committed even through the trials of life.
2. Sexual Faithfulness. Sexual faithfulness in marriage includes more than just our bodies. It also includes our eyes, mind, heart, and soul. When we devote our minds to sexual fantasies about another person, we sacrifice sexual faithfulness to our spouse. When we offer moments of emotional intimacies to another, we sacrifice sexual faithfulness to our spouse. Guard your sexuality daily and devote it entirely to your spouse. Sexual faithfulness requires self-discipline and an awareness of the consequences. Refuse to put anything in front of your eyes, body, or heart that would compromise your faithfulness.
3. Humility. We all have weaknesses and relationships always reveal these faults quicker than anything else on earth. An essential building block of a healthy marriage is the ability to admit that you are not perfect, that you will make mistakes, and that you will need forgiveness. Holding an attitude of superiority over your partner will bring about resentment and will prevent your relationship from moving forward. If you struggle in this area, grab a pencil and quickly write down three things that your partner does better than you – that simple exercise should help you stay humble. Repeat as often as necessary.
4. Patience/Forgiveness. Because no one is perfect (see #3), patience and forgiveness will always be required in a marriage relationship. Successful marriage partners learn to show unending patience and forgiveness to their partner. They humbly admit their own faults and do not expect perfection from their partner. They do not bring up past errors in an effort to hold their partner hostage. And they do not seek to make amends or get revenge when mistakes occur. If you are holding onto a past hurt from your partner, forgive him or her. It will set your heart and relationship free.
5. Time. Relationships don’t work without time investment. Never have, never will. Any successful relationship requires intentional, quality time together. And quality time rarely happens when quantity time is absent. The relationship with your spouse should be the most intimate and deep relationship you have. Therefore, it is going to require more time than any other relationship. If possible, set aside time each day for your spouse. And a date-night once in awhile wouldn’t hurt either.
6. Honesty and Trust. Honesty and trust become the foundation for everything healthy in a marriage. But unlike most of the other essentials on this list, trust takes time. You can become selfless, committed, or patient in a moment, but trust always takes time. Trust is only built after weeks, months, and years of being who you say you are and doing what you say you’ll do. It takes time, so start now… and if you need to rebuild trust in your relationship, you’ll need to work even harder.
7. Communication. Successful marriage partners communicate as much as possible. They certainly discuss kids’ schedules, grocery lists, and utility bills. But they don’t stop there. They also communicate hopes, dreams, fears, and anxieties. They don’t just discuss the changes that are taking place in the kid’s life, they also discuss the changes that are taking place in their own hearts and souls. This essential key cannot be overlooked because honest, forthright communication becomes the foundation for so many other things on this list: commitment, patience, and trust… just to name a few.
8. Selflessness. Although it will never show up on any survey, more marriages are broken up by selfishness than any other reason. Surveys blame it on finances, lack of commitment, infidelity, or incompatibility, but the root cause for most of these reasons is selfishness. A selfish person is committed only to himself or herself, shows little patience, and never learns how to be a successful spouse. Give your hopes, dreams, and life to your partner. And begin to live life together.
This is a simple call to value our marriages, treat them with great care, and invest into them daily. Accomplishing the items listed above will always require nearly every bit of yourself… but it so worth it. After all, a successful marriage is far more valuable than most of temporal things we chase after with our lives. And will always last longer.